The child didn’t ask to be born who decided to birth it it’s their duty you don’t get to birth a child then make his life hell and yes in Asian countries they treat children like future investment that’s why famale child are not loved enough ( cause females have to go to the males house after marriage ☺️)and male child are valued cause they will work for them and get the family going ☺️ and it is reality no love is their everything is business evryone have a reason for treating you good or bad including parents ☺️ I am an asian myself I can confirm ( but yes there are some good ppl to ) but yes we should take care of them when they are down no matter how shitty they treat you they are your parents they did abuse you mentally and physically but didn’t kill you and giving you shelter , food and clothing 🤭💅
@BLisSuger If you say it like that then if parents don’t take care of their children it also would be okay right? If they decide to abandon then you won’t feel ridiculous is that it? If not then i don’t get why him carrying out his duties feels ridiculous to you. Well i shouldn’t even be talking you westerners are all like that. Your parents kicks you out of the house right after you turn 18 so it might be ridiculous to you. But to us Asians a mom or dad always be a mom or dad and we always will be their child no matter what. When we’re at our lowest they’ll be the ones sheltering us even though we’re grown. That’s why those things in manhua feels unacceptable.
@wang lin lin I agree with you. Nobody understands how hard it is for a mother. Even mc left ml cause he couldn’t stand his behaviours so where does he have the right to criticize his mom but his mom or any mom would never leave their child. It’s a manhua that’s why everyone siding with the ml but if it was in real life the tables would’ve turned. Poor mom of his.
@Wang Lin Lin
what exactly do you mean by ‘duties’? obviously filial piety is a big thing, especially in asian countries, but honestly respect and love is earned. if the kid doesn’t think the parents are doing a well enough job, expecting them to carry out their ‘duties’ as a child is really ridiculous. besides ML never mistreated his mother, he just treats her as any other stranger, especially with his low EQ which his mother obviously never saw fit to help him with
Usually in an argument I can feel more inclined to one side, but this time I can understand the feeling and point of both. the hardship of single mother is unimaginable if you’re not rich enough, there’s no time to be tired let alone to think about mental health since she’s so busy to make money for her and her son. but xiaoyu is also right but he can think about other things because he has a worry-free life since childhood even though he also grew up with only single mothers but their world is different
I kinda feel bad for the mother. She devoted her whole life for him, even though Su Zhong doesn’t like her being this egoistic but he should still perform his duties as her child. Mother wanted him to have the best that’s why she, instead of the 5 yuan abacus bought her the 300 yuan lamborghini model. Even though she didn’t consider his feelings, she wanted the best for him
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The child didn’t ask to be born who decided to birth it it’s their duty you don’t get to birth a child then make his life hell and yes in Asian countries they treat children like future investment that’s why famale child are not loved enough ( cause females have to go to the males house after marriage ☺️)and male child are valued cause they will work for them and get the family going ☺️ and it is reality no love is their everything is business evryone have a reason for treating you good or bad including parents ☺️ I am an asian myself I can confirm ( but yes there are some good ppl to ) but yes we should take care of them when they are down no matter how shitty they treat you they are your parents they did abuse you mentally and physically but didn’t kill you and giving you shelter , food and clothing 🤭💅
Fiesty_focus
@BLisSuger If you say it like that then if parents don’t take care of their children it also would be okay right? If they decide to abandon then you won’t feel ridiculous is that it? If not then i don’t get why him carrying out his duties feels ridiculous to you. Well i shouldn’t even be talking you westerners are all like that. Your parents kicks you out of the house right after you turn 18 so it might be ridiculous to you. But to us Asians a mom or dad always be a mom or dad and we always will be their child no matter what. When we’re at our lowest they’ll be the ones sheltering us even though we’re grown. That’s why those things in manhua feels unacceptable.
Fiesty_focus
@wang lin lin I agree with you. Nobody understands how hard it is for a mother. Even mc left ml cause he couldn’t stand his behaviours so where does he have the right to criticize his mom but his mom or any mom would never leave their child. It’s a manhua that’s why everyone siding with the ml but if it was in real life the tables would’ve turned. Poor mom of his.
BLisSugar
@Wang Lin Lin
what exactly do you mean by ‘duties’? obviously filial piety is a big thing, especially in asian countries, but honestly respect and love is earned. if the kid doesn’t think the parents are doing a well enough job, expecting them to carry out their ‘duties’ as a child is really ridiculous. besides ML never mistreated his mother, he just treats her as any other stranger, especially with his low EQ which his mother obviously never saw fit to help him with
Pretty trash
Usually in an argument I can feel more inclined to one side, but this time I can understand the feeling and point of both. the hardship of single mother is unimaginable if you’re not rich enough, there’s no time to be tired let alone to think about mental health since she’s so busy to make money for her and her son. but xiaoyu is also right but he can think about other things because he has a worry-free life since childhood even though he also grew up with only single mothers but their world is different
Wang Lin Lin
I kinda feel bad for the mother. She devoted her whole life for him, even though Su Zhong doesn’t like her being this egoistic but he should still perform his duties as her child. Mother wanted him to have the best that’s why she, instead of the 5 yuan abacus bought her the 300 yuan lamborghini model. Even though she didn’t consider his feelings, she wanted the best for him
Farzeen
Well my mom is like that but I am not like zhong so we always argue about what I not like
Lazuli
Wellhead actually said it correctly. That’s not how mother love children. Even single moms are not like that.
Depressed chan
I like how logical they are now